A few years ago, I cheated on my long-term boyfriend. We've since put in a lot of effort to put it behind us. However, I still feel guilty, ashamed, sad and upset about what I did. We've always got on really well, laughed and joked together and been able to talk about stuff. He is the nicest, kindest, most patient person I know - he's a really good person who loves only me.
Cheating On My BF Was The Smartest Thing I Could've Done
Cheating On My BF Was The Smartest Thing I Could've Done
Yay or nay? Tag your BFF! I'm not the only woman in the history of time to have cheated on her boyfriend. Many think that when it comes to cheating, it's something only men do. This, couldn't be any further from the truth. Women cheat on their boyfriend or spouses too.
Until the day I actually cheated on my boyfriend , I never thought I was someone who could become a cheater. When I was younger and imagined my adult existence, I fantasized about a dramatic, "complicated" love life, sure — one where I had frequent, passionate, and torturous love affairs watching Moulin Rouge once a week will do that to you. But the fantasies never involved a dude on the side.
We were sitting close enough together on the edge of his bed that I could feel the heat of his body without actually touching him. A nervous magnetism was keeping us closer together than necessary and, also, just slightly apart. So there we sat, thighs squishing against the sagging side of his bed, waiting for either something or nothing to happen. Matt and I had sex every day sometimes multiple times a day for the first two years of our relationship. I was